Having an affair is all about getting the most of your experiences in bed, and that can’t happen if you do not focus on what your mistress wants. This might seem counterintuitive to you, but the truth is that a woman is going to be more responsive if you pay more attention to her in bed. This is especially true with a mistress and it is important that you try to spoil her in bed so that you can get the most out of the experience. Knowing how to give her what she wants in bed will definitely make your experience that much better, so it’s always worth figuring out how to make things as good as possible for both of you.
Focusing on the Foreplay for Fun and Profit
“She wants more foreplay – give it to her”
While foreplay is probably not something that you’re really into, it can seriously benefit you if you choose to focus on it more than you normally would. Women sometimes need a lot of foreplay to get going, and while this can suck if you are not patient, it will definitely pay off to pay attention to her instead of focusing only on yourself. Make sure to get her nice and worked up either by using your fingers or tongue. Whatever it takes, and whatever she likes, you should be trying to focus on it as much as you possibly can. This may seem tedious but it will always make her more responsive in bed later on, so it’s definitely going to be worth it in the end even if it takes a while longer to get there than you are used to.
Trying out New Things That She Likes
When you want to have sex with a mistress, you probably don’t want to have to focus on anything vanilla. You want to be able to try new things, of course, so you will want to get kinky. However, you should never immediately try to go for just what you want. She has her own fantasies and desires too, and you should try to listen to those as often as possible. Find out what she likes and what she would like to try and you may be surprised by where your desires overlap. If you try something she wants to do, you may end up liking it much more than you thought you would.
Listening to Her Wants and Needs
“Know what she wants exactly”
Listening to your partner is important in bed because it allows you to make sure things are as good as possible for her. This will make the experience better for you, too. You may not realize it, but your pleasure does depend on hers in a way, since she will be more excitable and interesting in bed the more excited she is, which will be a good thing for you. Listen to what she wants and do your best to make that happen for her so that she gets more out of the experience. You will be sure to benefit from it, too.