Some women like to lead on men as if it is a game. While a woman may make you think that she’s definitely going to put out, it’s easy to spot when they’re just trying to use you to get what they want.
She Never Wants to Meet Up
“She might be trying to fool you”
One quick way to find out if she’s leading you on is when she seems to always want to flirt and talk, but never wants to meet up. It is easy to fall victim to wanting to hook up with these types of women. Most of them will never let you know that they have no plans of meeting you in person. Rather, they will pretend like they want to meet you. Some of them will go as far as to make plans with you only to cancel them at the last minute. These women are usually all for having cyber sex with you. Many of them will even be willing to cam with you. However, the moment you ask her to meet her in person, she will come up with any excuse she can to avoid ever having to meet you.
After the third failed attempt at hooking up with her because of her canceling on you, it may be time for you to cut your losses. She will probably continue messaging you, but don’t bother to fall for her excuses. Usually, these women are just lonely married women who are in need of attention because they aren’t receiving it from their husbands. However, they have no desire to actually cheat on them.
She Meets Up With You, But She Doesn’t Want Sex
“She is not letting you do anything”
You may think you’re lucky if she decides to meet up with you, but a lot of times, women don’t actually plan to have sex with you. This woman will more than happily take up your invitation to dinner or some other type of event. She is doing this to make you think you’ll get lucky later. She is also happy to meet up with you because she knows she will get something free out of the deal, especially if you’re paying for dinner or perhaps a movie.
While she is with you, she may be willing to make out and might even go as far as to let you cop a few feels, but she won’t go any further than that. She may tell you that she’s on her period or make up some other excuse for why she won’t put out, but the truth is that she doesn’t want to fully cheat on her husband. Don’t be surprised if you never hear from her again. Usually, these type of women only go on one date with you because she knows that you’ll be expecting her to put out on any dates following your last one.
Even if a woman leads you on, it’s important to get over it. The last thing you want to do is end up letting your emotions get the better of you when you find out that you got played. Once you find out that she’s tricked you, don’t fall for anymore of her tricks.