Improving your appearance is important if you want to attract women, especially if you are a married man looking for a mistress. It isn’t always easy to change your appearance and develop new grooming habits when you are married, however. Your wife may be scrutinizing every detail about you and she might notice any changes rather quickly. If you change too much at once, she might seriously question your motives for doing so, and this might be a warning sign to her. It’s important to know what changes you might make to your appearance that might be too obvious to your wife. While you can make changes to your appearance if you have a good enough reason, it’s still a good idea to be cautious.
You Start Working out Too Often
“Don’t show your eagerness to be fit to her”
Hitting the gym much more frequently than you ever have before, your wife might notice something is up. Unless you have a very good reason to start hitting the gym and working on your appearance, you may want to take it easy and slow down. Try to come up with a good reason. Maybe you want to be healthier or maybe you want to lose weight, but either way you have to convince your wife that you are doing it for your sake and health. She may start force feeding you various health drinks and all sorts of things because of it, but at least she will not think that you are trying to get find in order to find a mistress. It is all a matter of subtlety and control.
You Change Your Cologne
“Changing your cologne will make her suspicious”
If you have worn the same scent forever and you suddenly switch it up, you can be guaranteed she will notice something is up. She might not even care unless she is seriously suspicious, but it is still something you should keep in mind before you change it. You may be able to convince her that you merely got tired of your old cologne, and it should be fine. However if you start combining this with a bunch of other changes to your routine and style, she may start to view it with more suspicion than she needs to, so be cautious when you want to try out a new scent.
You Change Your Clothing Style
Changing up your clothing style is a great idea if you want to attract a mistress, but it might not be a great idea if your wife is used to how you used to dress. She may be on the lookout for suspicious behavior, and if you have always been particularly set in your ways then changing your entire style might be a bit too unbelievable for her. Try changing things subtly and try to have a good reason for it, though to may be hard to convince her that you’re changing your clothing style just for her. It can be done, but it definitely isn’t the easiest thing to convince her of so you should try to be cautious if you can.