Many guys think they can treat married women the same way as they treat single women, but this isn’t always the case. Often times, married women have done the things that you do with single women before, and if you continue to use the same old tactics with them, they will be bored and quickly lose interest in you.
Skip Dinner and a Movie
“She is not fond of typical date ideas”
When you’re hooking up with a married woman and you want to know where to take her, you need to ditch the typical dinner and a movie scene. Married woman have probably been on more dinner and movie dates than you can count. When men get comfortable with the routine of marriage, taking his wife to dinner and a movie is pretty much all he will ever do. Most wives aren’t going to openly complain about it because they think it’s better than sitting at home, especially if they have kids. Though, more often than not, these women are bored with going out to dinner, and then to a movie.
If you really want to impress her, take her someplace that she doesn’t often get to visit. Find out what type of things interest her and go from there. You should try searching in your city as well as nearby cities that have museums and zoos. If you live in a town where art galleries or comedy clubs are popular, set up a date to visit one. You can also take her to things that she’s probably never sat in on, such as a slam poetry night or a college play. Your goal is to enlighten her, and to make her see that there is more to hooking up with you than simply dinner and a movie.
Make It a Spa Day
“It would be an amazing experience for her”
This is something you don’t want to do often, but it is definitely something that you want to do. Set up a date for the two of you to go a spa. Make sure that you save up for it, and that you check around for the best prices. You don’t have to buy the most expensive spa package, but make sure that the two of you get lunch as well as a massage.
Remember spas aren’t typically cheap so don’t go overboard. Even though a spa is expensive, you want to do this for a few different reasons. The first reason is that spending money on that one spa date will pretty much guarantee that she’ll be all over you as long as you want her to be. She will relate being pampered and relaxed to you, and that is always a good thing. Another reason is that she probably won’t ever ask you for anything because she will feel great, but guilty that you spent so much money on her. In other words, she’ll have a sense of obligation toward you.
Deciding where to take married women is pretty easy. Just remember to do a bit of research in your area so that you can learn about all the things to do and places to go that her husband couldn’t care less about.