Sometimes having an affair with a married woman can be a bit of a handful. Married women might be a lot less secure when they cheat than most guys, and she probably isn’t cheating because she wants to have more sex. She’s more likely to be lacking an emotional connection with her husband and she wants to get it back and be treated much better. While you’ll still get plenty of sex out of the arrangement, you need to spare the effort to make her feel special like her husband no longer does. Knowing how to spoil and pamper her and make her feel special like she wishes her husband would will definitely help you have a more successful affair with your mistress.
Giving Her Gifts for No Reason
“Surprise her with a gift”
One of the biggest ways to make things feel romantic and whimsical is to give her gifts when she does not expect it. It doesn’t have to be anything big. Just giving her a small gift every now and then to show her that you were thinking of her can make her feel a lot more loved than her husband may be making her feel. The gifts can be fairly inexpensive and small, which is a good idea when giving gifts to your mistress anyway. You don’t want to give her anything that will be overly obvious or expensive, so this works out well for your situation. Don’t shower her with gifts for absolutely no reason and with no thought behind them, come up with a story about how it made you think of her if you need to. This will have much more impact than one big gift.
Listening to All of Her Problems
Sometimes all it takes to get into a woman’s good graces is to really listen to her and what she says. Her husband may not be listening to her or paying enough attention to her anymore, so just showing her that you hear her problems and you care about them is a great way to give her the affection she needs. If she wants to rant about her bad day, you should show her that you’re available to listen to everything she has to say to you. This may be slightly tiring but it will definitely be worth it in the end when she realizes how much you care.
Making Her Feel Wanted
“Make her feel special”
It is highly important to show your mistress that you genuinely care about her and want her. This should be obvious, since you went through the trouble of having an affair with her to begin with, but it isn’t always that obvious to women. You have to show her that you really want her, through your words and actions. Pay special attention to her when you are out on dates and dote on her in bed so she knows exactly how much you want her. While this probably seems silly to you, women who are having affairs often need to be reassured in this way.