Sometimes it’s impossible to get away with it. If you’re banging a MILF that’s still married, you’re playing with fire. A husband and kids only complicates things. If her husband starts to suspect she’s screwing around on him, he’s going to start looking for ways to catch her in the act. Obviously, that’s bad news for you. In the interest of self-preservation, you need to play it safe if she tells you her husband is suspicious.
Cover Your Tracks
If your number shows up in her phone way too often, her husband is going to immediately suspect something’s up. Chances are good that he’ll call your number just to see who answers. Once he hears your voice, he’s going to lose it. Anytime you’re in a cheating relationship, you need to be smart about your phone. The best way to do this is to buy a disposable, pre-paid phone. This covers your ass if you’re also in a relationship, but it can help cover hers, too. Never answer a number you don’t recognize. Always plan your calls. That way, if someone from her number calls at a time you haven’t already arranged, you can avoid answering it and giving yourself away. To be doubly safe, get her to purchase a prepaid phone, too.
Make Smart Alibis
The whole “staying late for a business meeting” thing is old and not very believable. If you’re hooking up with a married woman, you need to be smart about your excuses. Her excuses in particular need to sound believable. If she goes to the gym or takes yoga, she can use those. If you know her husband, you also need to come up with good excuses. You can’t ever be suspected of being the same place his wife has been at the same time. The best lies have some truth in them. So if you play any kind of sport, create extra practices or games to cover up your hookups. Keep things sounding as believable as you can.
Back Off Temporarily
If you’re having sex with a woman who’s unbelievably hot, you’re never going to want to stop. Unfortunately, if her husband starts to suspect she’s cheating, that’s exactly what you need to do. Cool things off for a bit so that her husband backs off. This means no calls, no texts, no emails, and definitely no visits. If her husband is suspicious he’s going to check out everything she’s been doing, so if you take a break from it, she won’t get caught. It’s going to suck but it’s what you need to do.
If you’re just in this for sex, it’ll be easy for you to bail if there’s a risk you’re going to get caught. She might not be happy about it but you need to worry about you. If you’ve developed feelings for her, this might be harder to do. Weigh the pros and cons of what you’ve got going with her. If sex is the predominant pro, it’s time to move on. If it’s not, you’re going to have to decide whether the risk of getting caught is worth it for both of you.